Live Look IN said: November 21, 2008 5:54 pm PST
I found his Craigslist ad. This has got to be him--had his age listed--also the Hispanic wife, and the story matches what I heard him talking on the phone to his doc. (I found this cause I figured out what city he lives in) Enjoy!
My wife is NOT the "adventurous" type AT ALL. We've been married for almost 30 years and our time together has been exclusive.
We're recent empty nesters (in the last couple of years) and I'm beginning to push the envelope, so to speak, and do things we've never done before. At the moment that's restricted to positions, etc.
She knows how much I LOVE lesbian sex. Only recently she's begun to realize that I'm not all that "sick" because of sitcoms or other shows on TV that make light of the fact that most men dig the idea of two women together.
So in an effort to one day reach that end, I'm trying (struggling) to think of ways to get her to do that. Thus, this ad.
My problem is huge, in that I must first find ways to "loosen" her up and do things beyond the "norm". At the moment, I'm trying to convince her that we should have sex in other rooms in the house, other than the bedroom. She's hispanic, if that helps to clarify her modesty.
Next, I'm trying to think of how I can subtly 'hint' that if she'd consider having sex with another woman, I'd be willing to suck another man's cock first as a show of good faith. I've never done that before, so it'll be new for me, too.
Is this a bad idea? I'm open to some email exchanges and discussions on how best to approach this thing.
I think it's fair to say that this process will take weeks or months because she's no easy egg to crack.
If anyone has ever done this or been involved with anything like this, PLEASE write me and tell me how you did it.